I reject that Manichean view of the situation. In the first place, it’s too late for him to talk to them.
In the 2d place and really it’s kind of in first place too - he is the most unpopular president ever.
He can’t win. Has he won one thing since he was signed in? Gorsuch, but he didn’t do that. mcConnell did.
No, he is in a lose-lose situation no matter what he does at this point.